The Redeemed Marriage Podcast

After the Affair Days 4-10

The Road to Redemption is a long journey with lots of steps. In the second part of this series, Rusty and Heather share details of the early days after Heather's confession of infidelity. They share things they did right and also things they would have done differently. The blueprint may not be the same for every couple healing from a betrayal, but Rusty and Heather have a story of reconciliation, restoration, and redemption that others can gain insight from.

After the Affair Days 1-3

When an affair or some other betrayal happens in marriage, you find yourself asking "now what?" Very few people talk about their experience, and every situation is different, so it is hard to find a blueprint of next steps. Rusty and Heather have walked the Road to Redemption after an affair, so they at least know what worked for them. In this episode, they openly discuss the very difficult days immediately following Heather's confession of infidelity. They will share the things they got right, and also the things they might should have done differently.
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How To Have A Life Giving Marriage

So many marriages are stuck. So many marriages are settling for mediocrity or even just being roommates. So many marriages are lifeless. Rusty and Heather pull out their list of practical ways to have a life giving marriage. Your marriage can experience a transformation, and it can begin with these steps.
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Why Do Couples Stay Married After Betrayal?

After a marriage crisis such as an affair, why do couples stay together? How does a faith background affect the decision to stay together? Why do many couples choose to stay together and then settle for a lifeless marriage? Rusty and Heather discuss these questions, and the hope of a transformed marriage.

How To Deal With Triggers

Anyone that has been hurt knows that certain things can trigger memories associated with that pain. After a painful experience such as infidelity, triggers are usually frequent and intense for quite some time. Although the passing of time helps, triggers can resurface unexpectedly much later. Rusty and Heather battled triggers following their journey through an affair, and they learned quite a few things about fighting and defeating the triggers that threaten to open up old wounds.

The Story Behind the Brand

The Redeemed Marriage has rolled out a new look. But, there is much more behind the brand than just a new logo and new photos. Rusty and Heather share their re-brand journey, as well as the practical, personal, and spiritual meanings behind the brand. Also, they discuss new marriage resources and several exciting things still to come.

Affair Confession Anniversary

August 23, 2011 - the date of Heather's confession of her affair. On the anniversary week, Rusty and Heather reflect on the emotions that still come up each year, and also give a list of things that are different about their marriage 12 years later.
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Did I Marry the Wrong Person?

If you have been married longer than 24 hours, you have probably asked yourself the question, "Did I marry the wrong person?" Did you grow up believing there is one "right" person for you to marry and you think you made a mistake? Rusty and Heather discuss soul mates, divorce, remarriage, and what to do if you start feeling like you married the wrong person.
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Beyond the Hurt

In a follow-up episode to last week's topic, Rusty and Heather discuss moving beyond the hurt after betrayal. Specifically, hear Rusty's thoughts on being able to regain physical intimacy with Heather after her affair. While every story is different, Rusty and Heather share openly about their own personal journey of moving beyond the hurt in order to give hope to broken marriages.
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Bedroom Thoughts

Physical intimacy is such a crucial part of a marriage relationship, but it is often a difficult subject for couples. Many couples have painful baggage in this area, whether it is from pre-marital relationships, or betrayal and unfaithfulness during marriage. Rusty and Heather discuss the importance of physical intimacy, their healing in this area after infidelity, and even an incredible resource they recently discovered!
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