Episodes
Episodes
Monday Sep 18, 2023
Why Do Couples Stay Married After Betrayal?
Monday Sep 18, 2023
Monday Sep 18, 2023
After a marriage crisis such as an affair, why do couples stay together? How does a faith background affect the decision to stay together? Why do many couples choose to stay together and then settle for a lifeless marriage? Rusty and Heather discuss these questions, and the hope of a transformed marriage.
Monday Sep 11, 2023
How To Deal With Triggers
Monday Sep 11, 2023
Monday Sep 11, 2023
Anyone that has been hurt knows that certain things can trigger memories associated with that pain. After a painful experience such as infidelity, triggers are usually frequent and intense for quite some time. Although the passing of time helps, triggers can resurface unexpectedly much later. Rusty and Heather battled triggers following their journey through an affair, and they learned quite a few things about fighting and defeating the triggers that threaten to open up old wounds.
Monday Sep 04, 2023
The Story Behind the Brand
Monday Sep 04, 2023
Monday Sep 04, 2023
The Redeemed Marriage has rolled out a new look. But, there is much more behind the brand than just a new logo and new photos. Rusty and Heather share their re-brand journey, as well as the practical, personal, and spiritual meanings behind the brand. Also, they discuss new marriage resources and several exciting things still to come.
Monday Aug 28, 2023
Affair Confession Anniversary
Monday Aug 28, 2023
Monday Aug 28, 2023
August 23, 2011 - the date of Heather's confession of her affair. On the anniversary week, Rusty and Heather reflect on the emotions that still come up each year, and also give a list of things that are different about their marriage 12 years later.
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Monday Aug 21, 2023
Did I Marry the Wrong Person?
Monday Aug 21, 2023
Monday Aug 21, 2023
If you have been married longer than 24 hours, you have probably asked yourself the question, "Did I marry the wrong person?" Did you grow up believing there is one "right" person for you to marry and you think you made a mistake? Rusty and Heather discuss soul mates, divorce, remarriage, and what to do if you start feeling like you married the wrong person.
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Monday Aug 14, 2023
Beyond the Hurt
Monday Aug 14, 2023
Monday Aug 14, 2023
In a follow-up episode to last week's topic, Rusty and Heather discuss moving beyond the hurt after betrayal. Specifically, hear Rusty's thoughts on being able to regain physical intimacy with Heather after her affair. While every story is different, Rusty and Heather share openly about their own personal journey of moving beyond the hurt in order to give hope to broken marriages.
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Monday Aug 07, 2023
Bedroom Thoughts
Monday Aug 07, 2023
Monday Aug 07, 2023
Physical intimacy is such a crucial part of a marriage relationship, but it is often a difficult subject for couples. Many couples have painful baggage in this area, whether it is from pre-marital relationships, or betrayal and unfaithfulness during marriage. Rusty and Heather discuss the importance of physical intimacy, their healing in this area after infidelity, and even an incredible resource they recently discovered!
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Monday Jul 31, 2023
Jealousy vs Boundaries
Monday Jul 31, 2023
Monday Jul 31, 2023
All healthy marriages need boundaries, especially when it comes to relationships with members of the opposite sex. How extreme do those boundaries need to be, and what do you do when jealousy becomes the motivation for boundaries? After walking through an affair that started with a disregard for certain boundaries, Rusty and Heather share great insight into protecting your marriage through appropriate boundaries.
Monday Jul 24, 2023
How Open Should We Be With Our Children About Marriage Conflict?
Monday Jul 24, 2023
Monday Jul 24, 2023
Every marriage has conflict. Should conflict take place behind closed doors, or should your children witness conflict? What if the conflict is more like a crisis...like an affair? Should you tell your children? How much should they know? Rusty and Heather share their thoughts on teachable moments through everyday conflict, and also how they made decisions about telling their kids about Heather's infidelity.
Wednesday Jul 19, 2023
To Trust Us You Need To Know Us
Wednesday Jul 19, 2023
Wednesday Jul 19, 2023
You tune in for marriage advice every week, and you are likely captivated and inspired by their story of redemption after an affair...but do you really know Rusty and Heather? They invite you into their story, and ask you to trust them, but you probably don't know who they are right now. You can go back and listen to their story of infidelity throughout the podcast, but this episode lets you know who Rusty and Heather are...today!