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Why We Stayed: Reflecting on 13 Years After the Confession

Rusty and Heather open up about their journey in the 13 years since Heather's confession of unfaithfulness on August 23, 2011. Having recently passed another anniversary, they reflect on the reasons they initially chose to stay together and how God has honored their decision over the years. With their second and last child now off to college, they also explore how different their lives could have been had they made other choices. Listen and allow their story of redemption, commitment, and the power of faith in the midst of adversity bring hope to your marriage.
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Second Honeymoon Here We Come

In this week's episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather discuss a new chapter of their marriage—empty nesting, or as they affectionately call it, their "second honeymoon." As their youngest son heads to college this week, Rusty and Heather share the intentional steps they've taken to prepare for this season, including staying connected and rediscovering their shared passions and purpose. They also open up about the challenges they anticipate, from adjusting to the quietness of an empty house to redefining new expectations surrounding intimacy.
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Summer Shorts: How do we deal with triggers when our pastor preaches on adultery?

In this week's episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather address a question from a listener struggling with triggers while in a church setting related to past infidelity. Despite years of healing, the listener and her husband find themselves reliving painful memories whenever their pastor preaches on adultery. Rusty and Heather draw from their own journey through infidelity and share how to find peace and hope amidst recurring emotional wounds.
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Summer Shorts: How do you grow closer to the Lord and closer together?

In this episode of the Redeemed Marriage podcast, Rusty and Heather Bryant answer a Summer Shorts question from a listener in Oklahoma. They discuss practical ways couples can grow closer to God individually and together. Their candid conversation reveals how their individual and collective spiritual lives have changed post infidelity. Drawing from that personal experience, Rusty and Heather share the importance of individual spiritual growth as the foundation for growing spiritually as a couple. They offer thoughts on balancing shared spiritual practices, while supporting each other's unique spiritual journeys.
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Summer Shorts: Is it ok to celebrate and enjoy your anniversary when your marriage has been tainted by an affair?

This week a listener from Kansas asks about the complexities of celebrating a big anniversary milestone after their marriage has been marred by infidelity. Having just celebrated 28 years of marriage, Rusty and Heather discuss the importance of celebrating restoration and redemption. They share personal stories of anniversaries following their own journey through infidelity, and how their celebrations are much different now.
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Summer Shorts: How did Heather's cancer diagnosis affect reconciliation?

In this week's episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather discuss a listener's question from the United Kingdom regarding the impact of Heather's cancer diagnosis on their journey of reconciliation. Heather was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2016, just five years after their marriage crisis.
This episode explores how the health crisis was challenging, but also served as a catalyst for reaffirming their commitment to one another. Rusty and Heather share their personal experiences, discussing the growth that came from facing such a significant life event together. Listen in on how adversity can strengthen bonds, the importance of teamwork during tough times, and how shared struggles can lead to deeper understanding and connection. Whatever challenge you are facing, your commitment to each other can flourish even in the face of adversity. Tune in for an episode filled with hope, resilience, and practical advice for maintaining a strong marriage through life's trials.
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Summer Shorts: How do we navigate communication about the betrayal post affair in order to balance healing and moving forward?

In this week's Summer Shorts episode, Rusty and Heather tackle two interconnected listener questions about post-affair communication challenges. They discuss the balance between healing from betrayal and moving forward in your marriage after infidelity.
They address a betrayed spouse's anxiety about discussing the affair, fearing it may cause guilt for their partner. They also examine the struggle of an unfaithful spouse dealing with frequent, painful reminders of their past actions.Drawing from their personal experiences, Rusty and Heather offer practical advice on:
Creating a safe space for open, honest communication
Setting healthy boundaries for affair-related discussions
Managing emotions and triggers during conversations
Balancing the need for healing with the desire to move forward
Fostering empathy and understanding between partners
This episode provides valuable guidance for couples navigating the complex journey of rebuilding trust and intimacy after infidelity, emphasizing the importance of patience, compassion, and even professional support in the healing process.
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Summer Shorts: Will sleeping in separate beds lead to problems in our marriage?

This week's episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast continues the Summer Shorts series, addressing a question from a listener in Mississippi about the potential impact of married couples sleeping in separate beds.
Rusty and Heather discuss the potential risks associated with sleeping separately, while also providing practical tips for couples to maintain healthy sleeping habits. They also share their opinion on whether it's generally advisable for married couples to sleep apart. 
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Summer Shorts: What do we do if one spouse feels like the marriage has significant problems while the other spouse believes everything is fine?

On this week's episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather tackle a challenging question from a listener in Pennsylvania: How to handle a situation where one spouse believes the marriage has significant problems and is unhappy, while the other spouse feels everything is fine.
Drawing from their personal experiences and insights, Rusty and Heather explore this common marital dilemma from both perspectives. They offer practical advice for both the dissatisfied spouse and the content spouse. They also discuss the potential benefits of seeking professional help, such as marriage counseling or coaching, to bridge the gap in perceptions and improve overall marital satisfaction.
This episode provides valuable insights and actionable steps to navigate this delicate situation, fostering better understanding and connection between spouses with differing views on their marriage's health.
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Summer Shorts: Have you considered interviewing your sons? Luke and Logan's perspective on their parents' journey through infidelity.

Rusty and Heather sit down with their sons, Luke and Logan, for a deeply moving and personal conversation. For the first time, Luke and Logan open up publicly about their understanding of their parents' journey through infidelity and how it impacted them as they were growing up. Hear their honest and heartfelt reflections on learning of their parents' marriage crisis, the challenges they faced as a result, and the lessons they learned along the way. This episode offers a unique perspective on the ripple effects of marital infidelity on a family and provides hope and inspiration for those navigating similar paths. Listen in on this powerful conversation about the Bryant family's journey to redemption. 
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