The Redeemed Marriage Podcast

From Regret to Repentance: The Turning Point in Our Story

What happens in the critical hours and days after infidelity comes to light? In this pivotal episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather Bryant share the raw aftermath of confession—the fear, chaos, and the moment their private pain became a public reality. Rusty reveals the non-negotiable boundaries he set to give their marriage any chance of survival. Heather opens up about her journey from regret and shame to true, God-led brokenness—the turning point that made redemption possible. Together, they walk through the first, crucial steps toward trust, forgiveness, and healing. This episode is essential for anyone navigating the fragile space between betrayal and restoration.
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Before the Fall: The Unseen Steps to Infidelity

An affair doesn’t begin in a single moment of passion—it starts with quiet compromises and subtle shifts of the heart. In this second part of their powerful testimony series, Rusty and Heather Bryant revisit the season before the confession that forever changed their marriage. With raw vulnerability, Heather shares how seemingly harmless “what if” thoughts and a craving for affirmation outside of her marriage slowly eroded her foundation and opened the door to betrayal. Rusty offers perspective from the betrayed spouse, reminding listeners that protecting a marriage begins with guarding your own heart. Together, they reveal how pride, discontentment, and the belief that you “deserve better” can become footholds for the enemy. This episode is essential for anyone seeking to understand the anatomy of infidelity—not to assign blame, but to build stronger boundaries, restore hope, and pursue a deeper walk with God.
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August 23, 2011: The Confession That Changed Our Marriage Forever

In a single night, a confession of infidelity shattered their marriage—and opened the door for God to rewrite their story. On August 23, 2011, Rusty and Heather Bryant’s marriage faced its breaking point. After 15 years together, Heather confessed to an affair—a moment that devastated their relationship and set them on a path they never could have imagined. In this deeply personal episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, they invite listeners into the raw, unfiltered story of that night: the phone call that forced a confession, the hours of fear and uncertainty before the truth came out, and the immediate aftermath that left their future hanging in the balance. Both share their perspectives—Heather recounting what was happening in her heart before confession and Rusty revealing what it was like to hear the words, “I’ve been unfaithful.” More importantly, they explain how God met them in the middle of their devastation, speaking clearly and giving hope when everything felt lost. This episode isn’t about sensational details—it’s about the power of God to restore even the most broken marriages. Whether someone is facing betrayal, walking through a season of hopelessness, or simply in need of encouragement, Rusty and Heather’s story points to the truth that redemption is possible and hope is real.
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Truth or Trash: Debunking Marriage Advice

In this week’s episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather take on some classic marriage advice in a lighthearted game of “Truth or Trash.” From the famous “Never go to bed angry” to “Marriage is 50/50,” they dissect some of the most common sayings passed down through generations—sharing their personal perspectives, agreeing, disagreeing, and having a little fun along the way! They’ll dive into the real meaning behind these phrases, debunking myths, and offering fresh insights into what truly makes a marriage work. Whether you agree or disagree with their take, this episode will give you plenty to think about. Plus, there are plenty of laughs, sound effects, and a little talk about nose hair trimming! Tune in for some fun and practical marriage wisdom!
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Still Healing, Still Growing, and Still in Love After 29 Years of Marriage

This week on The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather celebrate their 29th wedding anniversary with honest reflections on love, redemption, and real-life struggles after infidelity. In this deeply personal episode, they share how even joyful moments like an anniversary can still stir up pain, triggers, and shame—especially when betrayal is part of your story.
Heather vulnerably opens up about battling feelings of unworthiness and being defined by others. They talk about healing, handling emotional triggers years later, and finding freedom in knowing your true identity in Christ.
Whether you’re in the middle of a marriage crisis or walking years into recovery, this episode offers hope, encouragement, and a real look at what it means to keep growing, loving, and choosing each other every single day.
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When Your Worst Moment Goes Viral

The viral 'Kiss Cam' moment has sparked countless memes and a lot of laughs, but it also opens up a much deeper conversation. For Rusty and Heather, it brings up raw emotions from their own story of walking through a painful and public mess. In this episode, they go beyond the memes to look at the destructive power of secrets, the reality of public shame, and the incredible opportunity for God to bring redemption from the rubble. They discuss what it means to have compassion, not just for the wife and family, but for everyone involved, and how a moment of public failure can become a catalyst for life-changing faith. If you’ve ever wondered how to find hope in humiliation or want to protect your own marriage from hidden dangers, this episode offers a perspective you probably won't hear anywhere else.
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Unlock His Heart: 10 Surprising Questions About Romance

This week on the Redeemed Marriage podcast, the tables are turned! After putting Heather in the hot seat last week, it's Rusty's turn to answer 10 surprising questions about what he finds romantic. If you've ever wondered what men really want when it comes to romance in marriage, this episode is a must-listen.
Join Rusty and Heather for a fun, revealing, and honest conversation that goes beyond the typical date night ideas. Discover the simple, everyday actions that make a husband feel pursued, cherished, and truly loved. From the power of playfulness and adventure to the importance of feeling wanted, Rusty's answers might surprise you and give you powerful new insights into your own relationship. Learn how to improve communication, strengthen your connection, and keep the spark alive, whether you've been married for one year or thirty. This is the practical Christian marriage advice you need to understand your spouse on a deeper level and build a more romantic, redeemed marriage.
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The Romance Quiz Every Couple Needs to Take

Do you assume you know what your spouse finds romantic? As Rusty and Heather approach their 29th wedding anniversary, they kick off a brand new series to discover if the definition of romance changes over the years. In this fun and insightful episode, Rusty puts Heather in the hot seat with 10 specific questions to uncover what romance, connection, and intimacy look like for her today. Join them for an honest conversation about planning a romantic getaway, the difference between spontaneous gestures and thoughtful preparation, and why the love languages you spoke while dating might need an update. This discussion is a perfect guide for any couple looking to improve their communication and better understand how to love their spouse well in their current season of life. You’ll be inspired to ask these same questions in your own marriage and might be surprised by what you learn.
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Building Unity: A Guide to Submission and Respect in Marriage

What does it actually mean for a wife to submit to her husband? In this episode of their Summer Shorts series, Rusty and Heather take on one of the most sensitive and misunderstood topics in Christian marriage, based on a fantastic listener question. Using Ephesians 5 as a guide, they break down the concept of biblical submission, moving beyond the idea of a simple command or hierarchy.
Discover why the context of these verses, including the call for husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church and the principle of mutual submission to one another, is absolutely essential. This isn't about blind obedience or being a doormat; it's about building a strong, unified team. Rusty shares a husband's responsibility to lead in a way that is worthy of respect, while Heather provides a wife's perspective on what it feels like to be led well. They offer practical examples from their own marriage on how they've learned to navigate this dynamic with love and respect.
If you've ever struggled with this passage of scripture or wondered how to apply it to your modern relationship, this conversation will bring clarity, encouragement, and a new perspective on leadership and respect in marriage.
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The "Other Person" in Infidelity: Can You Truly Forgive Them?

Welcome back to Summer Shorts on the Redeemed Marriage Podcast with Rusty and Heather Bryant! In this episode, they look into a deeply personal and common question submitted by a listener: "How am I supposed to forgive the other person involved in my spouse’s infidelity?"
If you're struggling with anger, resentment, and the pain of betrayal caused by your spouse's infidelity, and find it incredibly difficult to forgive the other person involved, this episode is for you. Rusty and Heather offer compassionate insights and practical steps for navigating this challenging aspect of healing after infidelity. Listeners will discover what forgiveness truly means, and importantly, what it doesn't mean, especially in the context of infidelity. They explore the crucial difference between forgiveness and reconciliation, particularly concerning the other person involved, and offer strategies for releasing them from holding power over your emotions and your healing journey. Learn how to process those infuriating thoughts and work towards emotional freedom, understanding the role of faith and God's commands in the journey of forgiveness.
Join Rusty and Heather as they explore this vital aspect of healing from the trauma of infidelity and moving forward in your marriage recovery. This discussion offers hope and guidance for anyone struggling with how to forgive when the hurt runs deep.
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