The Redeemed Marriage Podcast

Inside The Mind Of The Betrayed - Part 1

After Heather's confession of adultery in 2011, Rusty's mind and thoughts went through a whirlwind of emotions. What were the initial thoughts? When did he decide to fight for their marriage? Did he ever blame himself for Heather's actions? Dive into Rusty and Heather's story as you get an inside look into the mind of the betrayed spouse.
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Inside The Mind Of An Adulterer - Part 3

In the final episode of this mini-series, Heather answers more hard questions in an effort to better understand the battle of her mind during her affair. She discusses guilt, covering up sin, worldly sorrow, and how her mind eventually shifted towards running after Jesus. Her story of life change offers hope to anyone struggling in their marriage or fighting any bondage of sin.

Inside The Mind Of An Adulterer - Part 2

In Part 2 of this topic, Heather opens up about what was going on inside her head as she inched closer to crossing a line into an inappropriate relationship. She shares thoughts on guilt, the overwhelming pressure to hide her sin, and how things might have been different if she had confessed early in the process. This candid discussion shares warning signs, advice on asking for help, and hope for anyone that might be living with secret sin.
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Inside The Mind Of An Adulterer - Part 1

So many questions. Whether you are the betrayer, the betrayed, or just know of a marriage that has been affected by an affair, you have questions. How could someone knowingly choose to commit an act that could not only destroy their marriage, but could also destroy their life? In Part 1 of this series, Heather vulnerably opens up and shares some of the very early thoughts and actions that started her down a slippery slope that led to an affair.
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I’m Not Attracted To My Spouse Anymore - Full Version

We had some technical difficulty with this episode. When the episode originally uploaded, it abruptly cut off after 21 minutes. We updated it, but some of our users had already downloaded the short version. The best part was after it cut off! So, we decided to just create a "new" episode with the full 34 minutes. Here you go!
 
Most relationships begin with two people being attracted to each other physically. As the years go on, the physical attraction may fade for lots of different reasons. Rusty and Heather discuss reasons why couples may lose their physical (and even emotional) attraction to each other, and ways to shift your thinking to regain the attraction you once had. Believe it or not, you can have an even richer and deeper attraction as the clock ticks on.

I’m Not Attracted To My Spouse Anymore

Most relationships begin with two people being attracted to each other physically. As the years go on, the physical attraction may fade for lots of different reasons. Rusty and Heather discuss reasons why couples may lose their physical (and even emotional) attraction to each other, and ways to shift your thinking to regain the attraction you once had. Believe it or not, you can have an even richer and deeper attraction as the clock ticks on.

Making Your Spouse Happy - It’s Not Complicated

Men and women are very different. God made us that way. Sometimes knowing what makes our spouse happy can be confusing. But, we also over-complicate the process. Rusty and Heather recently had their own heart to heart conversation about how to make each other happy. On this episode, they invite you into that conversation in hopes that you can learn from what they discovered. 
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Resurrecting A Dead Marriage

Rusty and Heather's marriage was dead. After an affair threatened to destroy their marriage, God resurrected what was dead and made it alive. The same resurrecting power is available to your marriage. There is hope! Listen to a powerful message of hope, and see how your marriage can move from death to life.
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Lies We Believe About Marriage (Part 4)

Things get a little steamy as Rusty and Heather discuss the lie that sex after marriage is boring. Listen in on a vulnerable conversation about physical intimacy after an affair, God's design for sex, and how to communicate so that your sex life only gets better and more fun with age.
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Lies We Believe About Marriage (Part 3)

Is it possible to fall out of love with your spouse? Rusty and Heather unpack the many layers of this common lie that married couples believe. Heather found herself believing this lie when she was unfaithful in 2011, but now she speaks truth and hope into the confusing feelings and emotions she felt.