Episodes
Episodes



Monday May 08, 2023
Inside The Mind Of An Adulterer - Part 2
Monday May 08, 2023
Monday May 08, 2023
In Part 2 of this topic, Heather opens up about what was going on inside her head as she inched closer to crossing a line into an inappropriate relationship. She shares thoughts on guilt, the overwhelming pressure to hide her sin, and how things might have been different if she had confessed early in the process. This candid discussion shares warning signs, advice on asking for help, and hope for anyone that might be living with secret sin.
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Monday May 01, 2023
Inside The Mind Of An Adulterer - Part 1
Monday May 01, 2023
Monday May 01, 2023
So many questions. Whether you are the betrayer, the betrayed, or just know of a marriage that has been affected by an affair, you have questions. How could someone knowingly choose to commit an act that could not only destroy their marriage, but could also destroy their life? In Part 1 of this series, Heather vulnerably opens up and shares some of the very early thoughts and actions that started her down a slippery slope that led to an affair.
Website: https://www.theredeemedmarriage.com/
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Monday Apr 24, 2023
I’m Not Attracted To My Spouse Anymore - Full Version
Monday Apr 24, 2023
Monday Apr 24, 2023
We had some technical difficulty with this episode. When the episode originally uploaded, it abruptly cut off after 21 minutes. We updated it, but some of our users had already downloaded the short version. The best part was after it cut off! So, we decided to just create a "new" episode with the full 34 minutes. Here you go!
Most relationships begin with two people being attracted to each other physically. As the years go on, the physical attraction may fade for lots of different reasons. Rusty and Heather discuss reasons why couples may lose their physical (and even emotional) attraction to each other, and ways to shift your thinking to regain the attraction you once had. Believe it or not, you can have an even richer and deeper attraction as the clock ticks on.



Monday Apr 24, 2023
I’m Not Attracted To My Spouse Anymore
Monday Apr 24, 2023
Monday Apr 24, 2023
Most relationships begin with two people being attracted to each other physically. As the years go on, the physical attraction may fade for lots of different reasons. Rusty and Heather discuss reasons why couples may lose their physical (and even emotional) attraction to each other, and ways to shift your thinking to regain the attraction you once had. Believe it or not, you can have an even richer and deeper attraction as the clock ticks on.



Monday Apr 17, 2023
Making Your Spouse Happy - It’s Not Complicated
Monday Apr 17, 2023
Monday Apr 17, 2023
Men and women are very different. God made us that way. Sometimes knowing what makes our spouse happy can be confusing. But, we also over-complicate the process. Rusty and Heather recently had their own heart to heart conversation about how to make each other happy. On this episode, they invite you into that conversation in hopes that you can learn from what they discovered.
Website - www.theredeemedmarriage.com



Monday Apr 10, 2023
Resurrecting A Dead Marriage
Monday Apr 10, 2023
Monday Apr 10, 2023
Rusty and Heather's marriage was dead. After an affair threatened to destroy their marriage, God resurrected what was dead and made it alive. The same resurrecting power is available to your marriage. There is hope! Listen to a powerful message of hope, and see how your marriage can move from death to life.
Website: https://www.theredeemedmarriage.com/
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Monday Apr 03, 2023
Lies We Believe About Marriage (Part 4)
Monday Apr 03, 2023
Monday Apr 03, 2023
Things get a little steamy as Rusty and Heather discuss the lie that sex after marriage is boring. Listen in on a vulnerable conversation about physical intimacy after an affair, God's design for sex, and how to communicate so that your sex life only gets better and more fun with age.
Website: https://www.theredeemedmarriage.com/



Monday Mar 27, 2023
Lies We Believe About Marriage (Part 3)
Monday Mar 27, 2023
Monday Mar 27, 2023
Is it possible to fall out of love with your spouse? Rusty and Heather unpack the many layers of this common lie that married couples believe. Heather found herself believing this lie when she was unfaithful in 2011, but now she speaks truth and hope into the confusing feelings and emotions she felt.



Monday Mar 20, 2023
Lies We Believe About Marriage (Part 2)
Monday Mar 20, 2023
Monday Mar 20, 2023
"You complete me.""You make me whole.""I'll give 50%; you give 50%; together we give 100%."Sorry...but all of these are lies that we often believe about marriage. Rusty and Heather discuss the truth and reality behind these common beliefs, and also give hope to those marriages where only one spouse is working to give 100%.
Website - https://www.theredeemedmarriage.com/



Monday Mar 06, 2023
Lies We Believe About Marriage (Part 1)
Monday Mar 06, 2023
Monday Mar 06, 2023
If your spouse really loves you, they should know what you want and need...right? In this episode, Rusty and Heather discuss why married couples often believe this lie, and how to avoid falling into the resulting resentment that comes from believing this lie. Learn how to create better communication and understanding to combat the lie that the enemy wants you to believe.