The Redeemed Marriage Podcast

Going Steady With Your Spouse: Using Retro Dating Terms to Reignite Your Relationship

Join Rusty and Heather Bryant on the Redeemed Marriage Podcast as they take a fun, nostalgic trip down memory lane, exploring the evolution of dating terms from the courting days of the 1920s to today's modern "situation-ships." They'll discuss everything from "going steady" to "talking," and examine how these shifting labels impact marriage, commitment, and communication.
Discover how old-fashioned dating values like exclusivity, commitment, and intentional dating can be the key to building a healthy marriage and strengthening intimacy. Is your relationship a solid "item" or just another "situation?" Listen in for actionable relationship advice to reignite your love and build a lasting bond. This episode offers a fresh perspective on relationship culture and challenges you to bring back the romance in your marriage. Learn more about how to create the best relationships one meaningful dating term at a time!The Redeemed Marriage Website
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Going All In: From Roommates to Soulmates

Are you and your spouse feeling disconnected or stuck in a marriage that has lost its spark and purpose? Or are you trying to recover from betrayal and rebuild trust in your relationship? In this episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather share what it means to "burn your ships"—committing to a radical transformation in your marriage by leaving the past behind and embracing a future of endless possibilities and a fresh start.
Listeners will explore the empowering concept of total commitment—refusing to settle for "getting back to normal" and instead, forging a new path forward by completely removing the temptation to revert to old patterns. Whether your marriage needs a complete overhaul after infidelity or simply seeks to rekindle lost passion, this episode provides practical guidance and encouragement for creating a marriage that is not only redeemed, but better than ever before.
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Becoming a Spouse Who Chases After God

Are you tired of hearing you can't fix your spouse, but wondering what it actually means to work on yourself? Rusty and Heather get real about the practical steps it takes to continually chase after God as individuals and as a couple, even in the craziness of everyday life.
Discover practical tips and insights on how to become the spouse God has called you to be. Learn how to establish a daily rhythm of faith through Bible study, prayer, mentorship, and self-help resources.
This episode is for all married couples looking to prioritize their relationship with the Lord and strengthen their marriage. Discover how to find time for spiritual growth, and how to take steps of obedience even when you might not feel like it.
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From Shame to Strength in Sharing Our Story

This week on The Redeemed Marriage podcast, Rusty and Heather tackle a frequently asked question: How do they continually share the story of their past infidelity and the journey of their redeemed marriage—the pain, the shame, the ultimate transformation—without being consumed by it? How do they avoid being constantly triggered, returning to that very dark place? Listen as they reveal how sharing their story, pointing people to Christ, and embracing their role as a testament to God's redemption has become a source of strength, not a burden. Learn how they approach sharing their marriage story for healing, the mindset shifts they’ve made, and how they navigate the emotions that inevitably surface. Whether you're struggling to open up with others or simply seeking healthier communication about your journey within your marriage, this episode offers valuable insights and encouragement. Join Rusty and Heather as they share how their past has become a powerful tool for hope and healing, not just for themselves, but for others.
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Is Your Marriage Limping Along? Rebuilding Stronger After Pain

Does your marriage feel like it's just "getting by"? Is it struggling to move forward, burdened by past hurts and unmet expectations? Rusty and Heather Bryant from The Redeemed Marriage podcast invite you to explore a path toward healing and restoration in this powerful episode.
If you're tired of simply "coping" and long to experience a vibrant, thriving marriage, this is for you. Discover practical insights and encouragement to not just fix what's broken, but to rebuild a relationship that is stronger than before.
Whether you're facing communication issues, betrayal, lack of trust, or other challenges, learn how to move beyond simply surviving to truly thriving. This episode offers guidance, resources, and inspiration to help you redeem your marriage and discover the profound joy of a partnership that is stronger, more resilient, and more deeply connected than ever before.

Did We Almost Divorce? Honest Confessions & Finding Redemption

In a raw and revealing episode, Rusty and Heather confront a topic they've never fully addressed: divorce. After experiencing the devastating impact of infidelity, did they ever consider calling it quits?
Hear intimate confessions about their darkest days, the initial shock, and the defensive postures they adopted as the crisis unfolded. Listen as they honestly explore the reality of the 'D' word in their own marriage, openly discussing whether divorce felt inevitable and how they navigated such a difficult possibility.
Despite the depths of their struggle, Rusty and Heather also emphasize the unwavering hope for redemption, even in seemingly impossible situations. If you're questioning your marriage, wrestling with your future, or simply curious about their personal path to restoration, this episode is a must-listen.
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Marriage Restoration: Is it Your Heart or Your Story That Needs Healing?

In this episode of the Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather discuss heart transformation in the journey of marriage restoration. They share how true healing isn't just about fixing the marriage, but about personal and spiritual changes that must happen within each spouse.
Are you only focused on the details of your story, and not what God is trying to do in your heart? Listen as they discuss how they came to realize that God wanted their hearts first, and the rest, including their marriage, followed suit. 
How do you move past the details of betrayal and focus on the deeper, personal change God wants to bring about in you? What does it look like to put your complete trust in Christ during marriage struggles? How do you pray effectively when it seems like your marriage is too far gone?
Learn how to look beyond your story to find freedom and healing for both you and your spouse as you walk alongside Christ. Whether you're in the middle of a crisis or seeking deeper intimacy, this episode will help you pursue heart change for a healthier, more God-honoring marriage.
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Changing Needs in Marriage: The Impact of Time, Trauma, and Life's Seasons

Has your marriage felt different lately? Maybe the needs you and your spouse had when you first said "I do" have changed. In this episode of the Redeemed Marriage Podcast, join Rusty and Heather Bryant as they explore how individual needs shift due to time, the changing seasons of life, and the impact of betrayal and trauma.
Your initial expectations may not align with where you and your spouse are today. Understanding that your needs can evolve is the first step towards a more intimate and fulfilling relationship. Discover how love languages like acts of service, quality time, words of affirmation, gifts, and physical touch can shift and affect your marital connection. You'll also be able to see the importance of recognizing how these changes impact each other, and why you may need to lean more into certain areas to truly feel loved and connected.
Rusty and Heather share some of their own journey of navigating changing needs, giving you a peek into their real experience with how they've communicated and continued building a more meaningful marriage over the years, particularly after infidelity.
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Beyond Healing: When the Pain Returns in Marriage

Are you struggling with lingering pain in your marriage, even after you've done "the work?" In this episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather Bryant discuss the difficult topic of recurring pain in relationships, especially after experiences of betrayal, infidelity, or broken trust.
They explore the reality that while healing can occur, the pain can return and discuss why these triggers are common. Drawing from their own story of healing and working with couples, Rusty and Heather offer practical insights on:
Why past hurts can resurface in your marriage, even after counseling or forgiveness.
How to navigate those triggers without feeling like you're back at square one.
How to support your partner if they are triggered and how to manage your own emotions.
The importance of shifting your focus to gratitude and a deeper connection to God.
Practical ways to take your thoughts captive and make them obedient to Christ.
The power of walking through recovery together and understanding the journey your spouse is on.
This episode is not only for those who have experienced the pain of infidelity but also for couples working through any kind of lingering hurt. You'll hear insights that are essential for any marriage seeking a deeper connection and true restoration. Listen and gain hope as you learn to navigate the journey of marriage together with grace, understanding, and a heart set on healing.
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Is Your Marriage Desperate for a Miracle? What to Do When Love Fades and Hope Seems Lost

Is your marriage in a place where it feels like only a miracle can save it? In this powerful episode of The Redeemed Marriage podcast, Rusty and Heather discuss the topic of needing a divine intervention in your relationship. Drawing from their own miracle marriage story and from the hundreds of prayer requests they have already received for their February prayer challenge, they explore the reality that many couples are desperate for a miracle, often without even realizing it.
If you're feeling like love has faded, you're just roommates, or you are facing a marriage crisis, this episode will be helpful to you. Discover practical steps you can take when you feel lost and like your marriage is broken beyond repair. Rusty and Heather share how to recognize a genuine need for a miracle, why it's essential to seek God's intervention, and the importance of faith, readiness, willingness, and action when you’re praying for a marriage miracle. Learn how to focus on your own growth while still fervently praying for your spouse. You’ll also hear about the importance of using the resources available - books, podcasts, and mentorship - and understanding that God’s timing is always perfect even when your timing isn’t.
Whether you're dealing with infidelity, betrayal, or a general sense of disconnect, this episode provides hope that miracles still happen today and that God can truly redeem your marriage. Tune in for encouragement and real-life strategies to move toward a restored relationship.
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