The Redeemed Marriage Podcast

Summer Shorts: Rekindling Intimacy After the Hurt

Hello folks! Summer Shorts are back, and this week Rusty and Heather are tackling a really important and sensitive question about rebuilding intimacy in marriage. 
If your marriage has been rocked by betrayal, broken trust, or significant emotional pain, and you're wondering how to even begin the journey back to physical intimacy, this episode is for you. Rusty and Heather share candidly from their own journey, discussing the crucial role of rebuilding trust and fostering emotional connection first. They explore how vulnerability and open communication in marriage pave the way for healing physical intimacy.
In this conversation, you'll hear about why emotional intimacy truly is the foundation, and how to overcome the hard truth that physical intimacy is often the last area to fully heal. Hear practical steps to reintroduce non-sexual touch, create a safe space for reconnection, and the importance of patience, grace, and understanding in your healing marriage. There is hope to rekindle intimacy and find a path toward a redeemed marriage, even after deep hurt.
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The Unmaking and Remaking of a Man

This Father's Day week, join Rusty and Heather Bryant on the Redeemed Marriage Podcast for a deeply personal and vulnerable conversation about true manhood. Rusty shares candidly how Heather's infidelity and betrayal profoundly impacted his identity as a man, forcing him to confront deep insecurities and redefine strength.
In this special episode, Heather asks Rusty probing questions about:
How betrayal shakes a man's identity.
The permission to feel weakness and grieve.
The journey of forgiveness and modeling it.
Confronting pride in the path to healing.
The current meaning of manhood and how it has evolved.
The legacy he hopes to leave for his sons regarding manhood and marriage.
What strength truly looks like in a redeemed man.
This powerful discussion offers invaluable insights for men navigating their own identity and for women seeking to understand the complexities of the male heart, especially in the context of brokenness, faith, and redemption. Whether you're a husband, father, or simply seeking a deeper understanding of Christian manhood, this episode explores how a relationship with Christ transforms our view of ourselves and our roles. Perfect for anyone reflecting on being a husband and father and what it means to lead with a redeemed heart.
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Vulnerability On Air: From Hulk Costumes to Healing Insecurities

Welcome back to the Redeemed Marriage Podcast! Rusty and Heather are reunited in the studio after a busy few weeks navigating summer schedules and individual commitments. This episode, they discuss fostering connection and communication in marriage by spontaneously answering questions from the popular book "365 Connecting Questions for Couples.”
Get ready for some raw and vulnerable moments as they tackle tough topics like money in marriage, navigating insecurities (even years after infidelity recovery), and what true romance looks like to them. From heartfelt discussions about their relationship challenges and marriage advice on forgiveness, to lighter memories of Halloween costumes and high school dates, this Q&A session offers a candid look into how they keep their bond strong. If you're looking for ways to deepen your own connection, improve marital communication, and hear honest takes on real-life marriage issues, this episode is for you!
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Unstuck: Breaking Free from Past Marriage Pain

Feeling stuck in your marriage after betrayal, infidelity, or past mistakes? Join Rusty and Heather Bryant in this episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast as they explore the difficult journey of getting "unstuck." They discuss the impact of being trapped by past hurts, whether you're the one who was betrayed or the one who caused the pain, struggling with guilt and shame.
Discover why it's crucial to make the conscious choice to heal, forgive (yourself and your spouse), and stop replaying painful memories. Rusty and Heather share personal insights and biblical wisdom, including a powerful look at the story of the woman at the well, to illustrate how you can leave your "jar of shame" behind and allow God to rewrite your story. Learn how being stuck not only affects you but also damages your spouse and hinders the healing process for your marriage. This episode offers hope and practical steps for anyone seeking freedom, joy, and restoration in their relationship, even when moving forward seems impossible.
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This is My Story: Moving Beyond Past Hurts and Mistakes for a Redeemed Future

This week on The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather unpack the concept of accepting your story—the good, the bad, and the parts you wish you could change. Inspired by a recent sermon from Louie Giglio (Passion City Church) about the significance of self-care and embracing our unique narratives, they explore how true healing begins when we stop fighting our past.
Whether your story includes past mistakes, regrets, trauma, infidelity in marriage, or simply a season you'd rather forget, this episode offers hope. Rusty and Heather share vulnerably from their own experiences with marital infidelity and redemption, discussing how God's grace can take even the most broken pieces and create something beautiful.
Discover why you can't alter the past, but you can allow God to write a new chapter for your future. If you're struggling with shame, past hurts, or wondering how to move forward, learn practical ways to find peace and purpose in your own story. Join Rusty and Heather for an encouraging conversation about finding hope after hurt and the power of a redeemed story.
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Is Your Marriage Missing This Key Ingredient? (Hint: It's FUN!)

Welcome back to the Redeemed Marriage Podcast! In their ongoing "Marriage Killers" series, Rusty and Heather Bryant tackle a surprisingly common yet devastating issue: the slow fade of fun and laughter from a relationship. What happens when the joy, playfulness, and shared enjoyment that once defined your connection start to dwindle? Boredom can set in, routines become ruts, and the spark can dim.
In this episode, discover:
The critical importance of intentionality in cultivating fun and shared enjoyment.
Practical ways to reignite laughter, from shared activities and travel to everyday flirting.
How a shared purpose and open communication can protect your marriage from becoming stale.
The surprising connection between fun, intimacy, and overall marital health (wait 'til you hear about their pastor's Mother's Day sermon!).
Join Rusty and Heather as they explore how to avoid this "marriage killer" and ensure your relationship stays vibrant, connected, and full of laughter. Learn how to make fun a priority, protect your marriage from becoming routine, and rediscover the joy in your partnership.
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The "Me First" Marriage Killer

What happens when "me first" becomes the default setting in a relationship? Selfishness, often disguised as legitimate needs or expectations, can quietly creep in and destroy a marriage from the inside out. Join Rusty and Heather Bryant on the Redeemed Marriage Podcast for the latest episode in their "Marriage Killers" series as they tackle this common but devastating issue. They get brutally honest about the subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways selfishness manifests – from unrealistic expectations and entitlement ("make me happy!") to poor communication and a lack of genuine sacrifice. Heather shares her personal struggles and vulnerability with this very issue, revealing how focusing solely on your own happiness can lead to marital breakdown and hurt. Discover why wanting your spouse to fulfill your desires isn't enough, and how this mindset can erode trust and intimacy.. Learn why shifting focus from receiving to giving, practicing true selflessness, and recognizing the importance of serving your partner are crucial steps toward building a healthier, stronger, and truly redeemed marriage, even when it feels difficult.
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Secrets: A Silent Killer of Your Marriage

Are secrets silently eroding the foundation of your marriage? In this installment of the "Marriage Killers" series, Rusty and Heather Bryant tackle the destructive power of secrecy in relationships. Discover why keeping secrets from your spouse, even seemingly small ones about finances, thoughts, or daily activities, can create distance, break trust, and ultimately kill intimacy. They explore how secrets often start small but can snowball, leading to a heavy burden of fear and the constant effort of covering tracks. Learn why full transparency and honesty are non-negotiable for a healthy, thriving marriage, especially when rebuilding after broken trust or betrayal. If you're struggling with hidden truths or want to cultivate deeper honesty and connection with your spouse, this episode offers crucial insights, personal reflections, and encouragement for bringing everything into the light. Tune in for practical marriage advice on overcoming secrecy and fostering open communication in your relationship.
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Marriage Killers: Removing God from the Center

Subtle habits can slowly destroy your marriage. The biggest threats are usually a quiet drift away from what matters most. Continuing with the "Marriage Killers" series, Rusty and Heather Bryant discuss the crucial role that God plays in marital health and the dangers of letting Him slip from the center. Discover practical warning signs that you might be experiencing spiritual drift as a couple. They also discuss the importance of cultivating your own personal relationship with God, rather than relying on your spouse’s faith. Learn why acknowledging God as not just Savior, but truly as Lord of your marriage, is foundational for your relationship.
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Marriage Killers: Don’t Let the Drift Sink Your Relationship

Are you unknowingly drifting away from your spouse? This week on the Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather Bryant discuss the subtle ways marriages can deteriorate due to neglect. Discover how this "marriage killer" can slowly erode emotional connection, intimacy, and trust. They'll explore how "doing nothing" can be one of the biggest threats to your relationship, causing a drift towards disconnection. Learn practical steps to recognize and combat this "marriage drift" and rebuild a stronger, healthier marriage. If you are having relationship struggles, you won't want to miss this. Whether you're facing communication issues, intimacy problems, or just feeling disconnected, this episode offers actionable advice to reignite the spark and build a lasting, fulfilling marriage.
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