The Redeemed Marriage Podcast

The "Me First" Marriage Killer

What happens when "me first" becomes the default setting in a relationship? Selfishness, often disguised as legitimate needs or expectations, can quietly creep in and destroy a marriage from the inside out. Join Rusty and Heather Bryant on the Redeemed Marriage Podcast for the latest episode in their "Marriage Killers" series as they tackle this common but devastating issue. They get brutally honest about the subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways selfishness manifests – from unrealistic expectations and entitlement ("make me happy!") to poor communication and a lack of genuine sacrifice. Heather shares her personal struggles and vulnerability with this very issue, revealing how focusing solely on your own happiness can lead to marital breakdown and hurt. Discover why wanting your spouse to fulfill your desires isn't enough, and how this mindset can erode trust and intimacy.. Learn why shifting focus from receiving to giving, practicing true selflessness, and recognizing the importance of serving your partner are crucial steps toward building a healthier, stronger, and truly redeemed marriage, even when it feels difficult.
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Secrets: A Silent Killer of Your Marriage

Are secrets silently eroding the foundation of your marriage? In this installment of the "Marriage Killers" series, Rusty and Heather Bryant tackle the destructive power of secrecy in relationships. Discover why keeping secrets from your spouse, even seemingly small ones about finances, thoughts, or daily activities, can create distance, break trust, and ultimately kill intimacy. They explore how secrets often start small but can snowball, leading to a heavy burden of fear and the constant effort of covering tracks. Learn why full transparency and honesty are non-negotiable for a healthy, thriving marriage, especially when rebuilding after broken trust or betrayal. If you're struggling with hidden truths or want to cultivate deeper honesty and connection with your spouse, this episode offers crucial insights, personal reflections, and encouragement for bringing everything into the light. Tune in for practical marriage advice on overcoming secrecy and fostering open communication in your relationship.
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Marriage Killers: Removing God from the Center

Subtle habits can slowly destroy your marriage. The biggest threats are usually a quiet drift away from what matters most. Continuing with the "Marriage Killers" series, Rusty and Heather Bryant discuss the crucial role that God plays in marital health and the dangers of letting Him slip from the center. Discover practical warning signs that you might be experiencing spiritual drift as a couple. They also discuss the importance of cultivating your own personal relationship with God, rather than relying on your spouse’s faith. Learn why acknowledging God as not just Savior, but truly as Lord of your marriage, is foundational for your relationship.
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Marriage Killers: Don’t Let the Drift Sink Your Relationship

Are you unknowingly drifting away from your spouse? This week on the Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather Bryant discuss the subtle ways marriages can deteriorate due to neglect. Discover how this "marriage killer" can slowly erode emotional connection, intimacy, and trust. They'll explore how "doing nothing" can be one of the biggest threats to your relationship, causing a drift towards disconnection. Learn practical steps to recognize and combat this "marriage drift" and rebuild a stronger, healthier marriage. If you are having relationship struggles, you won't want to miss this. Whether you're facing communication issues, intimacy problems, or just feeling disconnected, this episode offers actionable advice to reignite the spark and build a lasting, fulfilling marriage.
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Beyond the Red Bow: Finding Joy Even When You’re Fighting Alone

What do you do when you feel like you're the only one fighting for your marriage? This week, Rusty and Heather Bryant share a deeply personal interview with a friend who is courageously navigating the aftermath of infidelity and searching for hope when her spouse isn't ready to join the journey.
Hear her candid testimony about finding strength in Jesus, learning to control her attitude and lean on prayer in intentional ways, and discovering answered prayers she never imagined. This isn't a story with a tidy "happily ever after" ending - it's a real, raw account of finding joy in the midst of pain and building a relationship with Jesus, as the first step to getting a marriage back on track.
If you're struggling with relationship issues, the painful realities of infidelity, or feel like you're walking alone, this episode is for you. Discover how radical prayer can be your secret weapon, why a broken marriage can be an opportunity for deep personal transformation, and how to find unexpected blessings even when things look their darkest. Tune in for a dose of faith, hope, and the reminder that God is working, even when you can't see the full picture.
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Speaking Truth: The Courage to Confront Concerning Behavior

Silence isn't necessarily golden when it comes to your relationships. This week on the Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather Bryant take a look at the tough topic of speaking truth and having the courage to address questionable actions or patterns we see in those closest to us.
Drawing from the biblical story of Judas, they explore how subtle shifts and patterns of behavior can lead to devastation. Learn practical insights on how to approach these delicate conversations, when to speak up (even if it's uncomfortable), and how to do so with love and grace.
Is your silence protecting others, or is it enabling a dangerous path? Don't let fear hold you back from speaking life-giving truth. Tune in this week to The Redeemed Marriage Podcast and discover how you can develop the courage to confront with compassion.
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A Practical Guide to Boundaries in Marriage

Are you struggling to establish healthy boundaries in your marriage? In this episode of the Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather Bryant explore the crucial role of boundaries in building a stronger, more trusting, and fulfilling marriage.
Learn practical tips for setting and maintaining boundaries to protect your relationship and prevent future hurts. Through insights from their own journey, you'll discover that boundaries are about protection and trust, not control, and how that foundation builds a safe emotional space for both spouses. Uncover practical strategies for boundary setting with the opposite sex in work and social settings. Discover how to protect your marriage through digital and entertainment boundaries and learn how to navigate conversations about boundaries with your spouse.
Whether you're looking to rebuild trust or want to prevent future harm to your marriage, this episode on boundaries is for every couple.
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Going Steady With Your Spouse: Using Retro Dating Terms to Reignite Your Relationship

Join Rusty and Heather Bryant on the Redeemed Marriage Podcast as they take a fun, nostalgic trip down memory lane, exploring the evolution of dating terms from the courting days of the 1920s to today's modern "situation-ships." They'll discuss everything from "going steady" to "talking," and examine how these shifting labels impact marriage, commitment, and communication.
Discover how old-fashioned dating values like exclusivity, commitment, and intentional dating can be the key to building a healthy marriage and strengthening intimacy. Is your relationship a solid "item" or just another "situation?" Listen in for actionable relationship advice to reignite your love and build a lasting bond. This episode offers a fresh perspective on relationship culture and challenges you to bring back the romance in your marriage. Learn more about how to create the best relationships one meaningful dating term at a time!The Redeemed Marriage Website
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Going All In: From Roommates to Soulmates

Are you and your spouse feeling disconnected or stuck in a marriage that has lost its spark and purpose? Or are you trying to recover from betrayal and rebuild trust in your relationship? In this episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather share what it means to "burn your ships"—committing to a radical transformation in your marriage by leaving the past behind and embracing a future of endless possibilities and a fresh start.
Listeners will explore the empowering concept of total commitment—refusing to settle for "getting back to normal" and instead, forging a new path forward by completely removing the temptation to revert to old patterns. Whether your marriage needs a complete overhaul after infidelity or simply seeks to rekindle lost passion, this episode provides practical guidance and encouragement for creating a marriage that is not only redeemed, but better than ever before.
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Becoming a Spouse Who Chases After God

Are you tired of hearing you can't fix your spouse, but wondering what it actually means to work on yourself? Rusty and Heather get real about the practical steps it takes to continually chase after God as individuals and as a couple, even in the craziness of everyday life.
Discover practical tips and insights on how to become the spouse God has called you to be. Learn how to establish a daily rhythm of faith through Bible study, prayer, mentorship, and self-help resources.
This episode is for all married couples looking to prioritize their relationship with the Lord and strengthen their marriage. Discover how to find time for spiritual growth, and how to take steps of obedience even when you might not feel like it.
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